Give real trust to other important people. If you really can't trust them, you have to think about breaking them. If he or she says the opposite sex is just a friend, you have to believe that it is true. Understand that he or she will never walk for the rest of his or her life and that no one will get his or her attention. Same for you. If you can't cope, you will never be happy with the jealousy in your relationship. You want more autonomy and understanding. Don't let emotions control your thing. Before you overreact, think things through. Just because your partner is friendly with the opposite sex doesn't mean they want to be with them. They may even think someone is attractive, but they are not. We are all human, and motivation is motivation. That doesn't mean they want to have anything to do with them. Being polite can easily be understood as something more, but probably actually nothing more. When you think about it, there are so many different elements that make up a workplace personality - so much so that it's a miracle that we can stay healthy.
For example, all jobs have a mix of professions and a wide range of ages, maturities, skills, education, and experience. Moreover, employees come from different cultures, backgrounds, and beliefs and have different personalities. At the same time, each person has different personal needs due to career motivators or personal issues, such as being single, married, divorced, widowed, or struggling with children and the various work changes that occur today in the family. Then everyone came to work with the approach; some of us see the world as a half-empty glass, and we continuously complain. This is compared to those who see life as half a glass and usually happy when they get a chance.
However, when the issue of employee jealousy raises the ugly one, it becomes especially challenging to deal with. Jealousy creates our minds and creates negative thoughts about another person, especially someone who appears to have achieved some success and advantage over you. Jealousy evokes a wide range of emotions, including anger, jealousy, fear, sadness, and even humiliation. Jealousy creates thoughts of injustice, hatred, bitterness, guilt, and even self-pity. It is so strong that it can cause sweating or feelings of weakness and aggressive acts such as constant questioning or, in extreme cases, even violence against others. Jealousy usually comes in a kind of fear: fear of giving up, fear of having a close relationship in college, fear of entering, or fear that your new boss may treat you with indifference. Nevertheless, jealousy creates a wide range of negative emotions; in fact, it can eat people and make a living. Jealousy causes low self-esteem, leading to a widespread sense of personal dissatisfaction at home and work. Unfortunately, these negatively focused people want their colleagues to fall for the same kind. They cannot see that others see the good in the world around them. As you can imagine, jealousy is unhealthy and so strong that it can destroy healthy work and personal relationships.
Honestly, in my experience, many people don't have to think about their feelings of jealousy or how it will affect their working conditions. They blame others and continue to ignite their flames of anger and anger. Still, others accept their feelings of envy but do not deal with them. Instead, they hit negativity and dig their deepest and deepest holes. It is often said that we are what we think. And if this is the case, we need to be able to take conscious steps to change our negative thoughts. First, try to identify and feel your feelings. Then explore precisely what causes these feelings. Do you think a strange and robust sense of competition with someone? Do you feel scared? What role does a lack of self-esteem play in your life? Write down your ideas and think about them. Then identify the root causes or keys that counteract the negative emotions. Then look after these stimuli and identify the real concerns and problems that lurk behind them. Look at the patterns in your thoughts and behavior because it will give you a good indication and will be a way to overcome your jealousy. Finally, take steps to change your feelings. A strong tactic is called a "self-talk" solution. Ask yourself if what you are saying is true. Then replace your negative comments with positive, more objective, and encouraging thoughts. Learn to change your belief with affirmation. For example, create a Mantra A Daily like "I'm fine at work" and keep saying it until you believe it. On the other hand, if you find that you can't control your emotions, consider taking the time to seek professional help. However, management cannot leave the solution of jealousy between employees to individuals. Instead, I believe leaders need to step in and take responsibility for overcoming this conflict before they can seduce and influence everyone in the workplace. Meet each employee to discuss the problem and help them identify the source of the concern.
Take advantage of the step-by-step solution of the problem to help an individual understand his challenges and develop creative solutions. If necessary, have fun with both people and, if necessary, provide personal training for the individual However, the best way to avoid envy in the first place is to make sure you keep the team's work in mind. This means being honest about assigning work tasks, treating employees fairly, and avoiding benefits. General meetings were held which reduce competition between your employees. Always invite all opinions and respect to all employees. One of the most common areas of employee envy is internal recruitment, which has led to one candidate being promoted to another. To overcome any conflict, the manager must ensure that he creates a fully transparent process that has credibility in the workplace. This means entering competency and competency requirements, conducting interviews with all qualified candidates, and providing comments to all unsuccessful candidates. An area where many leaders fall behind is the honest impressions of a failed internal candidate. In most cases, they are not even honest with their employees. The margin explains why the individual did not succeed. Or they document training needs but never keep the resources they need. As a result, any unsuccessful candidate feels a sense of injustice that can cause problems in the employment relationship. Another area of envy and conflict may arise when reward and recognition schemes are not used effectively. Again, it is essential to have a standard set of selection criteria. If employees are also part of the reward team, this increases the whole process with more weight and reliability.